How To Turn Guilt And Passion To Something That Will Make You Want To Give 100% To Everything You Do

There is always a phrase I tell myself: " GIVE 100% IN EVERYTHING I DO". Some of you might think, ahhh, here comes another dramatic quote, but with exaggerated fonts, but here comes the little twist, when I'm saying to give your 100 percent, it does not mean your consistency will be the same every day. What I'm really trying to imply is that you will be able to make out the most you can in one day, in other words, be more productive.

At first I used to dwell of having limited time, my 9-5 is not allowing me to do the things I really want. Excuses I use to look for just to avoid the real work. It went on for 3 years. When I feel this boost of motivation,I will do the work, and then, the next day, I will go on mundane not wanting to do what I am supposed to do to reach my goals.

It came to me, I had this mentality which I did not even realised which is; I would save my energy so that I can put more of it in my goal and this would like me to I give bare minimum in everything else just to that I would spent more in my goal and sometime I would do the contrary, but here the thing actually,it does not work. You will eventually slack off and will say tomorrow I'll do it, or when I'm motivated enough, I will do it, which means you're back to square one again.

One day,out of nowhere, I had this particular thought :  "Just Do Your Best", and I've been doing since then. If I gave my 100 percent to someone else, the guilt of not giving it to myself would eat me up, so I would pour the last bit of energy I had into my personal goal. No, I'm not being toxic saying you should work without rest. What I mean to say if you pour 100% of your best in someone else  work for 5 5 days during that 5 days  only you will give that 100% of your best back to yourself. As always the weekend will be for resting.

Now this is where passion comes into play, being passionate about something will make you want to work 24/7. Just Do It. It's not going to drain the life of you, you will feel fulfilling, trust me it's like how we get addicted to tiktok we can scroll for hours, we never say we will get burnout, but when, it comes to work on ourselves, we suddenly say we are going to burn out but the turht is it's all about the mindset. You are not doing something you are passionate that why you are not getting the dopamine hit, the excitement. You feel like a burden is being put on you. 

That's where discovery plays a part here. You have to have a passion to discover what you really want; some of us do not have hidden talent like the moment someone pick up a pen, they have this skill of knowing how to draw or write flawless or some of them are really good at mathematic or account as if it was a skill they have acquire from birth or even have this utmost talent of having the most excellency of all at communicating or just born into confident. 

I just want to let you know that I did not have all of that. I have been trying everything from scratch, sometimes it would be the utterly most stupid thing. I would have this grand gesture of imagination; it would be successful. Still, it was not the case you know why the lack of consistency when someone is passionate they move heaven and earth just because they can. it is something they enjoy doing and will keep doing cause this is what they like, that's the difference with someone who is now learning to find their passion, you will have to go back to your childhood,  what are the things you like and what were you passionate about. It could  be something your parents criticize you for or have downplayed you. 

This is how you are going to regain your passion and give your best in everything you do, but for you will need to go through that difficult path of trying things out and then stick to the one you are passionate about. If you are passionate about money, go for it, do things that will bring that bag to you. If money is not fulfilling to you, go back to your childhood; you will definitely know where that passion lies. Either one of these methods, irrespectively, will bring you that green note.

What I can assure you is that every passion will fuel you to give your best in everything you do. Let me break it down for you in a simple example. I wake up in the morning full of energy, saying I will write my blog today, but I have something else with high priority. Instead of daydreaming all day about writing that blog, I am going to give my 100 % to that particular task in hand at the moment. It's the guilt of not putting that 100% in my blog that will push me to give my best in writing it, instead of it being an average blog, it will be a full proficiency blog.Now, guilty and passion is working together so that I give my best in what you really want. 

In the end, it's really you who's going to help yourself, you will have this strange feelings at first but it's just you getting out of your comfort zone, just keep pushing and then watch how you are going to excellent in what you passionate about and will want to keep coming back to doing it and give everything else 100% as well so that the result hit different.