FAM

Rasna Malathari

Mother, Father, Siblings
Wait, By Blood Only
Guilt, How Did I Dare To Think This Way

Debt, Repay
Condition Over Condition

By Heart, Never, More Effort
Went Outside Their Script Again

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Punished, Did It Hurt?
Silence, Glare, Words

Tell Me, Tell Me More
You Are Just Making UP Stuff

Detaching,Forgetting
Going Numb With Time

Next Time, Same Feeling

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